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As would be nice to us may be, listen flattering praise - the biggest mistake that we can prevent. Indeed, the majority of flatterers - is a master manipulator and they are just waiting for us to relax and believe in their sincerity.
If the stream recepti does not dry out, tell you it's unpleasant. But ... If you are concerned that a smoothie can harbor anger and revenge in the case - it is better not mess. Then just smile and say nothing.
The more that show their attitude to flattery can do without words. Such as skipping words flatterer deaf ears. Urgently do something his hands and head, focus on your lesson. You can sort out the paper in the drawer, look for something on the table, and just utknites at the computer screen in the end!
Just look, do not go too far. After all, in the light of many sincere people that you really like and they tell you quite openly about it. Just praise them not intrusive and they also can tell you honestly recepti and not very nice things.
And anyway, if you have self-esteem combined with a fair amount of self-irony, no flatterers you are not afraid. Kibitzer and "know-all" does not teach us how to live.
And, at the same time in everyone's life met "all-knowing" neighbors, acquaintances and relatives who at every opportunity, bring down an avalanche on us tips, instructions how to live, notations and moralistic.
Counselors, "know-alls" are not going to take care of us and give their advice is not for our benefit. Usually to have them little things. They just want to show their superiority, recepti to make it clear that they are better versed recepti in the life and approve it its power over us.
The superiority of this, of course, imaginary, and they carefully hide their fear and sense of inferiority. And suddenly we find ourselves lucky, successful recepti and thus damaging to their self-esteem or leave out of their control?
Ask this adviser, and where he did what he advises recepti you. If he says that he does not do so, and one of his friends, or that he had heard it on the radio - thank him politely and tell me what advice only with practitioners who have personal experience.
If he says that he did it once upon a time - say, a long time ago that these data are outdated and he is not aware of the current trends. That is, you give the counselor to understand that he is not an authority for you and you do not intend to listen to his advice.
Sometimes recepti give unsolicited advice even quite competent people. But even experience and knowledge do not give anyone the right to tell us how to live. However, in this case, is to listen to advice, but only in order to assess whether they are suitable just for us and draw your own conclusions.
Yes, and you can lose your own opinions, have become dependent on others' advice. You always have to remember that we have our own head on his shoulders and if we need advice, we ourselves can see a specialist. But it will be only our choice.
Start him guidance and advice for any occasion and detail, down to how to brew tea. Most likely it will come out quickly and be themselves indignantly demand that you stop to tell him how to act.
Well, if your adviser is particularly impenetrable, and it does not apply the word - all miss his advice on deaf ears, do not look at the "nerdy", do not smile and he only occasionally mechanically utter the same phrase: "Yes, I have I listen. " At the same time take care of business or keep thinking about her. And as soon as possible stop communication.
Someone does not like your habits or character, and he can tell you that you a bad hostess or a bad worker? Can remain silent, but inwardly disagree. And you can say, "I do not think so", "you are wrong", "Except you no one complained."
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